Saturday, September 3, 2011

The memorable trip to California - Part 1

The year 2011 has brought in many new things in my life. The first one was the change in the organization that I work for. The second was the completion of my master's degree in January. The third was my trip to California and the fourth, my expectations from life. So much in such a short span of time :). I will go over it one by one, with special emphasis on third and fourth items.

On the 3rd of January, I joined my current organization. It was really exciting as I was moving on to a new work environment, was about to meet new people and would be working on something quite different from wat I did earlier. My spirits were high, but I was somewhat sad that I would not be seeing my buddies from previous organization. The coffee breaks in which we used to eat chats and have coffee are still fresh in my memory. The game of carrom which had become a routine would no loger be; the familiar faces which I would not be able to see daily... All of it did sadden me, but I said to my self - move on.

I will not talk much about work as that is understood :). My current organization and the previous one are both great companies and I would not talk much on it.

All of January went in getting to know how to get things going at office. In the mean time, Vinay and me finished the Project presentation for the Master's Degree Course and successfully completed the course. It was a big relief - We had been unable to enjoy most of the weekends in the last two years due to the classes. Now that it was over, we were free :).

There is nothing to see above the clouds - Road travel is far more interesting :)

In February, I was given an option to go to California and I took the option. Although I was yet to get complete training here at Bangalore, I thought it would not harm to go to the headquarters of the company and learn a few things. The date of travel was fixed to be March 23 and I got busy figuring out the basics to be learnt before I went there. I also had to get a Visa, which I did in February. All set to go, I was somewhat worried - I was not fully prepared - but also eager to see what is there outside India :) (First time traveler you see :))

I barely remember how the days went by... and it was the 23rd March. I was traveling along with one of my colleagues and that comforted me a lot - a least I would have company is what I thought. My colleague was traveling along with his wife and I checked into the airport very much ahead of time, our seats were far away and my plans of traveling along with him were gone for a toss :) (I made a mental note: Next time, if traveling in a group, do a group check-in). I did not specifically ask for the aisle seat and I realized my mistake when I got stuck between two ladies on either side. The seats were good enough for short flights, but longer duration flights in Economy class was quite tiring.

I am not air-sick, but traveling across time zones takes its toll. We had a one stop journey with a stop over at Hong Kong. During the entire journey food was given at regular intervals - The Indian veg food started to taste like Indian-Chinese fusion food by the time we reached San Fransisco International Airport :). I was feeling tired, but happy to have reached safely. It was afternoon by the time we reached the hotel at Milpitas (45 minutes drive from SFO). My colleagues who were already there from a few weeks asked me not to sleep in the afternoon so that I get adjusted to the time zone. But, I could not control my sleep and started sleeping at odd times. It took me a week to become fully normal. All that time it seemed as if I were walking in sleep and everything around me was some new world :). Thus began my trip to California.

One of the first things that I did was getting a calling card. I was already missing my homeland. Every one at the workplace looked busy all the time and the work culture was quite different. No wonder I was lost and my only hope was my Indian colleagues. If not for them, I would not have enjoyed my trip fully. All thanks to them, I was able to visit many interesting places and there was not a single moment that has not influenced my perspective about life.

The first weekend, we went to the Hearst Castle (http://www.hearstcastle.org/ - about 200 miles from Milpitas). It was almost the end of the rainy season and we saw a few showers all through the trip. At places, the fog (due to low-lying clouds) was so dense, we could barely see anything beyond the bonnet of our car. The experience of driving through clouds was breath taking. To add to it, I was still in sleep due to the jet lag - it seemed as if I was dreaming all through. Sadly, the dream lasted only till we were inside the car. The chill due to the rain woke me up abruptly from my cozy dream. As soon as we landed at the office of Hearst Castle, we bought the tour tickets and boarded the shuttle to the castle. The Hearst castle is one of the monuments that Californians feel very proud about - to me, it was just another building. Having seen buildings and monuments that are truly antique and historical in India, the Hearst Castle looked like a remixed song from a DJ. The place is supposed to be very scenic, but we saw nothing in the downpour. The castle is atop a hill and looks quite good from the outside. I had never seen shrubs bearing fully grown oranges - I saw just those and was somewhat delighted. Getting into the castle area, we were introduced to a big swimming pool which was apparently redesigned and rebuilt thrice (if I remember it correctly). There were big stone pillars all around - and these were brought from various parts of Europe. This shows the extent to which people go when they have lots of cash :). Then, we went through the changing rooms near the pool, the bedrooms, the dining area, the huge hall, etc. All through, we saw various antiques that had been collected from various parts of Europe. There was no original American artifact as such, but the collection was really impressive. The rain played the spoilsport and we were unable to see the castle properly from the outside, but from whatever we saw, we concluded that the place was not impressive. We returned after seeing another indoor pool and a few more rooms in the castle.

A few days later, I was driving on the American roads for the first time. The left aligned steering and driving on the right side of the road confused me for a day or two and after that, it was all a piece of cake.

Our next trip came up the next week. This time it was the Sattui Wine Yard in Napa Valley (http://www.vsattui.com/). The place was around 100 miles from Milpitas and the rains had cleared off by then. The weather was pleasant and the scenes exotic.

 Napa valley - Pruned grape creepers neatly aligned in the backdrop

There were lots of agricultural fields stretching beyond the horizon. Grasslands and small hills were the norm but as soon as we reached the Napa county, the landscape was totally filled with 'T' shaped Grape plants. All the plants were pruned and arranged in straight parallel lines stretching virtually to infinity. The wine yard had different parts - the first section was the factory that extracted the juice out of the grapes and stored in large steel tanks (we could not see this in detail). The second section was the dark room full of wooden barrels filled with various varieties of wines.

 Barrels and barrels of wine with the year of sealing stamped on each one

It was interesting to see wines of all ages lying around in barrels :). The third section was the sales area - where we could taste wine and buy some as well. The bartenders explained the varieties of white and red wine on offering; they gave us some gyaan on how to taste wine and some tips on choosing the right wine for the right occasion. Along with the wine, bread and food, there were wine glasses and some memorabilia as well if anyone wanted. Napa valley also has a wine train (http://winetrain.com/) - that explains how famous this place is for wine.

Just a little further from there was the faithful geyser of California
 The faithful geyser of California
(http://www.oldfaithfulgeyser.com/). The geyser, although small was quite interesting - letting off a jet of hot water and stream that went up to 25 feet in the air. I had never seen a hot-water geyser before - This one was interesting in that sense :). The trip ended within a day and overall, it was a nice set of places to visit. It introduced me to the foods and drinks of California.





Thursday, July 28, 2011

The joy of being free

March 4 2011 - 9pm - Bangalore City Railway station

Ever since I started working, I think about work almost all the time; be it a holday or any other regular day, most of my thoughts are directed towards something or the other related to work. March 4th was one of the few days on which I was unusually happy. I felt a strange feeling of joy and satisfaction; as if  I was set free of all thoughts. Was it because the day before was our birthday? (Vinay and me were born on the same day) Was it because I got my new phone on that day? Was it because I was going home that night after a long gap? I think of it all the time, but cannot figure out the exact reason. I was so much relaxed, I could feel the gentle breeze touching me in the moon lit night.

Vinay and me were seated on Platform number 9, and the white dial of the clock on the platform showed 9.05. The train never comes before 10.30pm and in case it comes before 10, it never leaves before 11 :) - As ususal, we were early and had more than an hour to kill.

We sat facing towards platorm 8 and I started thinking... It seemed like everything was moving slowly (life in slow motion) It was a noisy, but it seemed to be very quiet. Some unexplainable joy filled in all my senses - so much so, I could barely notice the loud buzz of chattering all around, babies crying, people walking on the platform and children running and jumping around. Vinay and me were talking in between and the silence in between the talks was taking me to an all together different world.

Some things that came to my mind :
Each day is a good day - It is all in our mind
There will always be resons to be cheerful and happy - it is just a matter of identifying them
Small things - such as a simple phone call to a dear one, or a chat with a friend does wonders to boost one's morale.
Everybody has problems - Managing them is an art and I need to strive to to get better at it.

For the next twenty minutes that we waited for the train to arrive, I kept on thinking about the good time that I would have with Aayi, Pappa and Vinay during the weekend. "We would go on a road trip to Aversa. We will enjoy the time together. We will meet Amma, Meenachhi, Nandumama, Nayanachhi, Dinesh mama, Anu and Abhay"


 The train arrived soon after. We got into the train and the joy and anticipation was increasing by the passing time... Just as I sat down, I took this snap. Something went through my mind - We are moving on so fast that we are missing many valuable things. Is it really worth losing them?

Friday, April 30, 2010

Nano-ing

April 2009:
The bookings for the Tata Nano were open and Nano was the news all around. The specs were impressive (except the small engine) and it seemed that the Nano was THE CITY CAR that we would ever need. Vinay and me had some money left and we booked the Nano....

March 2010:
There was such hype about Nano but the number of cars on road were a handful. We were given a time slot of July-Sep 2010, and I was almost sure that they would not deliver it any sooner. We really didnt care as we didnt have any requirement of car as such :)

In the last week of March 2010, I got a call from the dealer... We could get the Nano sooner than expected :) and we did get it on April 24th 2010 (I never thought that we could own a car so soon).

Pappa had come to Bangalore to take delivery of the car, and the ride from the showroom to our home was very comfortable... It is surprisingly spacious, comfortable and easy to drive. We could not do much on that day other than practicing to drive and getting used to the car...


The next day, Vinay, Pappa and me went to Nandi Hills. The drive again was comfortable (The AC is not very powerful, but does the job quite well) and all along the way we got stares and question marks on the face of the people :) The car handled well on the slopes and the engine is responsive and as good as (if not better than) the 800cc engine of Maruti 800.


The LX variant has Front power windows, AC, fog lamps and metallic colour in addition to the standard 600cc engine (which sounds like a silent 4-stroke auto :) and standard accessories. Although the car is suited for city driving, the traffic and the road manners of people makes me think some times that it is not worth driving in this mess :). The space inside the car is quite amazing. The head room and leg room in the front and back rows is comparable to Wagon R or a Santro. The seats are thin, but comfortable. The noise isolation inside the cabin is good too. With all windows closed, the engine noise is almost nil. With seat belts, and sturdy construction, it feels safe to drive. The turning radius is good too. You can move through tight corners and narrow lanes with relative ease.

Now, for the bad points. You dont get the left side ORVM! Also, the plastics are not of high grade and panel gaps are visible at many places. The gear shift is not as smooth as those found in other small cars.

All in all, you cant get any other car with these features at the price point that Nano offers (Although the wait was far too long :))

The saddest thing- Our new nano got its first official scratches from a pillar in the apartment :(
All due to my misjudgement. (The inaugural scratches were from the dogs in our street, but that is unofficial :)). Anyways, I'll get it fixed soon :)

Lessons learnt:
1. Drive slow
2. Dont expect Bangaloreans (not all, but most of them) to have road manners. When the dogs wont move even after honking so hard, how can I expect people to move?
3. It is not possible (in Bangalore) to keep the car as good as new. If you manage to keep it that way, you will have people ready to put a scratch on the car when you are not around.
4. Trust your judgment and dont trust others' judgment
5. People have to see and feel the Nano to really know what it is :). It is not at all bad :). It just cant be said that cheaper cars are not good.

Thursday, December 31, 2009

Why not to watch the Saas-bahu serials

Disclaimer:
The views given here are my own not intended to hurt/redicule/degrade the image of any person/community/culture. Reader discretion is advised.

Have you ever watched any of the Family sops or the Saas-bahu serials on TV? I bet you will have watched at least once. All the drama, the uncalled for suspense, the suspicion, family politics, the anxiety and the nonsense in these serials are perfectly designed to attract the audience. Although these serials have little entertainment value and almost zero knowledge value, most of the people watch them and discuss them as though it is their own story!

What is so interesting in these stories? Why do people die to see them (literally)? What is so special in them? All serials look alike and in some cases, the same actors are seen in multiple serials...

After looking into many stories (actual - and not the ones shown on TV) I came to know as to why people tend to like these family sops.... They either see their own stories in the serials or they like gossiping :)

Now,
will it not be good if we think rationally and not do all the family politics?
why not think creative rather than dwell on same old stories?
can we not have clear communication and avoid all the confusion (depicted in the serials) in the first place?
is it not possible to avoid irrational assumptions?

Everything is possible. The only thing needed is a change in mindset and the change in way of thinking. Problems will look big and daunting if they are thought to be so. Small issues will become big if ego comes in between. Misunderstandings will be abundant if people dont talk and express whatever they have in mind. And Ironically, these so called saas-bahu serials show us just that.... How to create misunderstanding; ways to trouble people; assumptions to break families and what not...

Is it possible to devote time to science, economics, arts or even nature instead of killing time watching all the bakwas serials?

I say - nothing is impossible.
:)

Sunday, November 29, 2009

I love to cook food - most of the time :)

Spent 30 minutes plus in the kitchen to discover that you cooked some crap? Why should any one spend the precious time in the kitchen to cook something that seldom tastes good?! The arguments against cooking are too strong to beat and rightly so... Many hate cooking. There also are complaints - " the food cooked by me does not taste good to me" "I want varieties" "I can never cook" !!

Cooking is truly an art. It takes a lot of effort and interest to master any art and cooking is no different. Having said all this, it is not such a difficult thing to cook some basic things. In the last two years, I have been cooking regularly and I am proud to say that I have improved a lot. We have cooked more than 40 varieties so far and every time, I try to do something different... Cooking is similar to the chemistry laboratory :) There is a lot of scope for trial and error. Proportions make or break the taste of food but fortunately the cases of failure have been rare with me :)

Other than getting to make something new, there are many other advantages of cooking. Here are a few which are not so obvious....
1. Cutting vegetables is a stress buster - Try to find the worst of your enemies in a cabbage. Then shred it to pieces... How satisfying :)
2. Onions are truly amazing vegetables - Difficulty in crying? Cant tell how sad you are? Try chopping some onions :)
3. Create a new recipe - name it after yourself :) Where else can you experience such freedom? :)

Let me list the different recopies that we have cooked so far at our house in Bangalore:

1. Vangi bath
2. Pulao
3. Puliogre
4. Lemon rice
5. Fried rice
6. Chapaati
7. Dosa - Masala Dosa, Plain Dosa, Benne Dosa
8. Chutneys - Pudina Chutney, Ginger Chutney, Onion Chutney, Garlic Chutney
9. Sambar - 5-6 varieties
10. Avalakki
11. Uppittu
12. Shira
13. akki rotti
14. raagi rotti
15. wheat rotti
16. shallow fry of vegetables - Potato, raw banana, onion, ladies finger, mushrooms, etc
17. boiled egg
18. egg omelet
19. Egg curry
20. Mushroom masala
21. Soya chunk masala
22. Gobi manchuri
23. Pav bhaji
24. Chana masala
25. Gobi masala
26. Low spice vegetable dishes of cauliflower, beans, etc
27. carrot halwa
28. Toor dal payasa
29. green gram masala
30. and many more....

Quite a long list :)

I hope it keeps growing...

Wednesday, August 26, 2009

They never seem to listen!

I am writing after quite a long time and it seems that my writing skills will rust (as if I had lots of it :) ) if the gap between posts happens to keep increasing...

A day before India's 62nd independence day, we all were ready to go to Chitradurga. We had 6 tickets booked and 1 passenger missing! It was none other than Mallikarjuna (aka Malli). Malli ad some "personal commitments" to fulfill and hence he did not accompany us... Any ways, he would finish off all his "personal commitments" and join us on Sunday.

Oh! I forgot to tell... Why in the first place were we going to Chitradurga?
It was Manju's Engagement day on August 16th (Read it as LAST DAY OF FREEDOM) that drew us to Chitradurga. Let me not deviate from the main topic... Where were we?... Malli was t join on Sunday.

Now that we had 1 extra ticket, and Tabu was traveling back to Davangere, we invited her to join us. The train arrived at the platform 45 minutes before the scheduled departure and all of us (Praveen, Vivek, Chandrakanth, Vinay, Tabassum and me) got in. We started chatting and Chandrakanth started having his dinner... I think we had prepared Palak panneer with Kabuli Chana, rice sambar and some other things...

After the dinner, it was the time for the TC to come and check our tickets. He was 10 meters away and we told Tabu to either climb up to the top berth and sleep tight or go for a walk and come after the TC left. Our brilliant girl peeped through the passage to see where the TC was and was sure that he saw her face. We told her that TC will be seeing hundreds of people, so, dont worry and just sleep. She wont listen! She goes to the other end of the compartment and gets down and the train starts moving! Keeping all of us worried and searching for her. Now, to add to it, she gets on the moving train and comes from a way straight in front of the TC! Such brilliance!

She had all of us on our toes!

The TC came after a few minutes and we had to transform Tabu to "Chandrakantaa" :) and our one and only Kantha became Mallikaarjuna :)

After some talking with the TC, we resolved the issue and all of us went to sleep ( At least I slept ).

Girls... If only they could listen to what is being said!

Thursday, June 25, 2009

Why do people like some movies?

Not everyone likes a movie the same way!
The other day, some of my friends were talking about Dev-D and how good it was... I thought that it must be a "Super Movie" as one of my friends described it. I decided that I MUST see the movie; after all many were giving such good reviews...

Finally! I saw the movie, the concept and acting was pretty good, but did I like the movie? Not at all!! I felt that it was too boring and rather tasteless movie (My personal views - I am sure many will beg to differ). This incident made me think - What makes people like or dislike a movie?

After doing a lot of research ;) I concluded that there are broadly four ways or rather perspectives in which people see any movie.
1. Put yourself in the shoes of one of the characters of the movie
2. Focus on one or more favorite actor(s)
3. Be neutral - Something is happening, you are seeing it but you are not involved in it.
4. Be neutral - Judge by the merit of the film

1. Put yourself in the shoes of one of the characters of the movie
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When people watch with this perspective, they like a movie very much if they "see themselves" in the movie, more so if the events in the movie correlate to some events with their lives....


2. Focus on one or more favorite actor(s)
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Oh! Sharukh, my favourite hero is in there. This must be a good movie!!
This is how people feel about the movie. The conclusion is generally drawn even before seeing the movie :)

3. Be neutral - Something is happening, you are seeing it but you are not involved in it.
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People having this view point are generally lost! The movie does not matter much to them and they see the movie for fun/enjoyment. They do not have any specific view point on any movie

4. Be neutral - Judge by the merit of the film
This category looks at the movie from analytical view. Judgement on the movie is done based on the match between the content of the movie and the beliefs of the viewer. Generally, there is no pre set notion involved in the judgement of the movie.

It is rather difficult to classify people in these groups, but it is correct to say that people see different movies in different perspectives for each movie. Some see the same movie repeatedly because they see their life similar to a character in the movie but some see it just for fun!

Summarizing it : It is a nice world to be in and movies make it a bit more attractive :)